I am often asked the inspiration for Game Theory - and to be honest, there are several. That said, I had the chance to read a letter recently from my Dad and it really hit home. I wanted to share it with you - I hope you enjoyed it and I know I did!
From my Father, Vince McCaffrey, Founder of Tomorrow's Promise...
Each participant who completes a training cycle with Tomorrow’s Promise Inc., leaves with new skills that will prove valuable to them. We hold to our standards, realizing that the contractors who hire our graduates are expecting job-ready employees who understand what it means to be successful in the construction trades. Whoever completes our rigorous training is truly the cream of the crop – those who were able to find the strength and determination to meet the challenge. Over the duration of this training cycle we’ve not only watched these trainees construct this fine structure – but, we have also watched them build a bridge to their future.
Thirty years ago I sustained a serious injury on a construction site. While it was not life-threatening, it was definitely career-changing. After several operations, I was told that the severity of the injury to my left hand meant that I would no longer be able to withstand the rigorous work of a carpenter.
Fortunately, I had the preparation, experience and education to be hired as a carpentry instructor Camden County Vocational School. This was during a push for a new direction for Special Education – creating new space on the school campus to teach the trades to special needs students. There was actually a child study team on-site to evaluate and counsel these students each day. The idea was to create an environment with the students that would eventually allow them to be integrated into the regular school population. These students included young people who were socially mal-adjusted, emotionally troubled, mentally challenged, deaf and so on. Many had multiple barriers to learning.
I enjoyed working with these students. They were labeled “special” by the school system, but these kids really were special. I realized that some would never be able to successfully integrate into the regular classroom, but others would. For some, the ability, drive and desire was obvious – and we started building that bridge together. This bridge had to be very solid – because failure for these students as they entered the mainstream could be devastating for them.
I was viewed by the administration as sort of a golden boy – I could keep the student’s attention, motivate them to perform in class and shop productively – even those with multiple problems.
One day we received the horrible news that the carpenter instructor for the regular school had passed away. The Superintendent of Schools came to me and asked me to take over this position permanently. I went to my director and told him about the offer, which he already knew about. I let him know that I didn’t want to leave my kids. I was very satisfied with the job I was doing and believed we were making a positive impact on the students. He let me know that, while this was admirable, it wasn’t the best career decision. And, he was correct – you don’t tell the Superintendent of Schools “no thanks”! I was able to keep my position – but things changed. As the golden boy, I got students to perform, learn and develop by using techniques not typically associated with the classroom and shop. These techniques, once praised by the Child Study Team and outside observers were now deemed “poor teaching methods” – even though the results were the same. I was now told to keep the students quiet and in-line. Learning was no longer the number one priority. I understood that the students wouldn’t understand why things were different and that this change would disrupt their progress. I was there for a purpose and if I couldn’t do what I knew was right, I had to leave.
Almost out of nowhere, it seemed, I received a call from my old college roommate telling me he just got hired as the new head football coach at Snow Jr.CollegeinEphraim,Utah. Dave, my old roommate, and I used to always talk about one day coaching together and building a powerhouse football program. I quickly became Assistant Football Coach at Snow. About the same time, I realized that Snow was certainly on the downside of football. Since I was from Philadelphia, it would be a natural for me to recruit from that area and bring back great athletes to Snow College. Junior college football out West is huge – they are feeder schools for major college football programs. This was especially true in the 70’s. In other words, Junior College football programs are the bridge for up-and-coming football players with promise to go to the next level. It seems like there is a pattern for this bridge idea!
When I sat down to think about my duties as a recruiter, a lot happened to me. I realized I was coming back to the Philadelphia area to recruit young high school student athletes to attend a college over 2500 miles from their homes – where they’d be the only African-American students not only on campus, but in the local community, too.
Ephraim,Utah is a small town – at that time it had about 900 permanent residents. One of the local merchants’ advertisement stated, “Come to Ron Green’s where the phone booth is on Main Street”. The closest traffic light was 55 miles away. The closest Catholic Church was 75 miles away. The student body was at least close to 100% Mormon – from small communities where there were no African-American residents. Most probably had never even met a black person. To put it into perspective – thePhiladelphiaarea had more people than the entire states of Utah,Nevada and Idaho combined.
I started to think about whether what I was doing was really the right thing. On one hand, we would be taking a young man off the city streets and giving him an opportunity for a better life through sports; on the other hand, the sacrifices and changes he would have to endure were extraordinary.
My mind was made up after meeting a few prospects and their families. Unfortunately, for the three years and many homes I visited to recruit in the Philly area – I never met one father.
My very first recruit was from Bartram High School. When I walked up the steps to his front door in late December or early January, I noticed the glass in the front window was missing. I remember thinking how much heat loss this must create. Once I was inside, I realized that there was no heat loss – because there was no heat.
In another neighborhood my car was rocked because I was white – it seemed there was a race riot going on.
I started to think and justify why they should leave their homes and come to Snow College. After all, as difficult as it would be to come to Snow, the time spent would only be for one school year and one semester, and then they could fulfill their dreams.
Meeting the families of these young men – their mothers and, in some instances, their grandmothers who were their primary caregivers – convinced me I was doing the right thing. I explained the extraordinary sacrifices they would make, what would be required of them academically. I told them that the road ahead would certainly be difficult, at best – but the end results were limitless. Almost to a person, each parent had the same feeling – as difficult as it would be for them to see their son or grandson leave home and move far away to a place that many of them knew nothing about – it had to be a better opportunity than what was currently in front of them. Believe me when I say I was extremely graphic in my explanations. The common sentiment was, “Please care for my child so he can really have an opportunity.”
Each of these recruits was, without question, the very best football players – not only on their teams, but in the entire leagues they played in.
When it was time for our recruits to come to football camp we knew we had one thing going for us. The players would arrive before the student body and they would be together, all with a common goal: enhance their academics, grow their bodies to become bigger, stronger, faster and more athletic while continuing to develop their football skills. All of this was in the hope that these skills would be recognized by a college or university and would be offered a scholarship. Not everyone was going to get a scholarship – but everyone had the opportunity.
Well, football camp arrived and so did our new Philadelphia recruits. Now, remember my description of Ephraim – well, it was a perfect description. Between practices the players could venture into town. Unfortunately, unless they wanted to go to Ron Green’s or make a call from the phone booth, not much was happening. The only other option was to drive or hike into the mountains – the town itself was already at an elevation of 5800 feet.
Some of our recruits looked around at the level of competition and immediately lost interest. Others couldn’t believe we were actually practicing three times a day and decided this was not for them. Some just plain got homesick. It was not for everyone, but for those who could adapt and persevere, there were many great opportunities and the future was limitless.
Through the years and even now I hear from some of these young men I recruited. I even hear from those who didn’t make it. This is what they say to me: “I didn’t quite understand what you were trying to accomplish, all I knew was that it was extremely difficult and I was not ready for what you were offering. However, later in life I understood what you were doing – maybe not in time for me to take advantage of it for my athletic career, but certainly in time for me to use it to become a good family man and productive citizen.
Some of our recruits went on to colleges and universities and had very successful careers. They went to schools such as the University of New Mexico,Mississippi State,Arizona State, the University of Nevada, Utah State,Colorado State,Weber State and even Brigham Young University, where two recruits from Philadelphia became a huge part of the team that won a National Championship.
I’ll be honest – there were some downsides, too. A couple went on to colleges only to fall into trouble and end up in jail.
Coaching at the college level takes a toll on family life, especially in a place like Ephraim,Utah. I made the difficult decision to leave coaching and return home to Philadelphia. I learned you don’t always get what you want or think you deserve. Here’s a good thing – the year I left Snow they became the number four rated Junior College football program. We did turn the program around.
I got back home to Philadelphia and started job hunting. Working on the college level opened new doors for me in the construction industry. I was hired by a construction firm and eventually was promoted to the level of superintendent. After doing this for many years, I gave up my position as superintendent and started working with inner city youth.
The three positions I held at different vocational educational programs for the next seven plus years really helped me grow in many ways. I gained a valuable perspective about the youth I was teaching. I also came to realize that this is where the construction industry is going to find its future workforce. I could see the value in these young people – a toughness and integrity. I wanted to help direct this energy toward making them valued employees with promising careers.
With all of my experiences and all that I learned came something else – a sense of responsibility to do something for our youth. That something was to create opportunities in the construction industry for anyone who truly has a desire to not just have a job – but to build a career where they can live the life they truly deserve.
I’ve been blessed to watch young students with special needs overcome great odds and succeed. I’ve seen young athletes make extraordinary sacrifices to realize their dreams. I love being a part of the lives of determined youth you continue to grow and develop into truly special, exceptional people. I get to see them become community leaders, valued and productive employees – doing what they enjoy, feeling good about what they’ve accomplished and having the financial status to provide a wonderful life for their families – and, to introduce their family and friends into this wonderful world of construction.
Tomorrow’s Promise is that bridge. It is a bridge so structurally sound that it can endure extreme hardship and still stand steady to provide the door to a lifetime of limitless opportunities.
Does it bother me that every trainee does not complete our training cycles? Absolutely. But, to lower our standards in order to get a greater number of graduates is not an option. When I look at the hard work and sacrifices of those I have taught, coached, instructed and mentored – and see the positive results of those efforts, I know without any doubt that Tomorrow’s Promise is absolutely career changing . . . LIFE changing.
I’m not able to brag today about all of our trainees. But I can certainly brag about each and everyone that makes it. These trainees are truly – crossing the bridge – a bridge they’ve helped to build. They should be proud, and feel good about themselves because each of them is special. So continue with your journey with the same desire, drive and passion to succeed that you’ve shown these past weeks – because the opportunities truly are limitless.